Sunday 24 August 2014

It's all about the choices we make ...


They said you are dumb, he made a choice. They said you are ugly, she made a choice. They said you are useless, he made a choice. They said you are a "girl", she made a choice. She cheated him, he made a choice. He dumped her, she made a choice. They said you are poor, he made a choice. They said you are weak, she made a choice. After all those years, we look back and say, "It's all about the choices we make".

When all of them said, "You can't win all those titles, nobody has even ever dared to do so ...", I made a choice and I won everything I participated in. They said, "You don't know how to recite a poetry ...", I made a choice and now people like more to hear me as compared to read my poetries. There is a friend of mine, his father is at the rank of "Havaldaar" (with due respect) in the Indian Army, he chose to be an "Army officer", currently he is in his 2nd year at NDA. See, it's all about the choices we make.

"Life is a path that leads you to a destination. You have to make a choice you want to travel by foot, on a Rajdoot, on a Royal Enfield, on a Maruti 800 or on a Lamborghini."
A guy was ditched by a girl, she went with someone else who had a bike and a wealthy father. The guy had to make a choice either sit in a beer bar, spend nights dreaming about her and end his life. Or follow up his college and classroom from the very next day and become a man of virtue, wealth and respect. He made a choice. :)

A guy once approached a publisher to publish his stories and his writings, that too free of cost and if the publisher gets a good response he can pay him something afterwards. The "busy" publisher refused. Guy requested him at least review my work once, at least see once, what I have written. May be you would like it. But the publisher refused. The guy had two options, either stop writing as there was no way to make any living through it or start publishing on his own. He made a choice. :)


The guy who was ditched by that girl is now a billionaire and soon will be marrying one of his colleagues and the girl who ditched him, is married to a central government employee, who earns 30,000 rupees per month. Leaves his home at 9 am and comes back at 6 in the evening daily from past 5 years.


The other guy started his own website and started publishing his stories. Currently he is one the most renowned script writers in Bollywood and has written several novels.


See, it's all about the choices we make ... :)


There was a person who used to sell spices in the middle east, he took risks, started a refinery. His colleagues told him that it's very risky. He made a choice, The person was Dhirubhai Ambani.


A guy used to work at Amazon, with top quality education and experience. He decided to leave the job and start his own company. He made a choice. His company is currently the top e-commerce company of India. The person is Sachin Bansal and the company is Flipkart.


This 13 year old boy used to sell cold drink in factories and used to deliver newspapers early in the morning. He made a choice. After a few years, He bought the newspaper publishing house and currently he is one of the richest men in the world. The name is Warren Buffett.


When I talk about making choices, I necessarily doesn't mean, that just by becoming someone like Warren Buffett or Sachin Bansal you can become happy. Happiness lies in everything, Sometimes, as tiny as a butterfly or sometimes as big as the full moon. Why should you give a damn if someone says that you are skinny or fat. Why should you start applying all those lotions and creams just because he says that you are too dark. Oh C'mon, give it a break, make a choice. Choose what "you" want to be, choose how "you" want to look and become what "you" want to be.


A mom feels happy when her children achieve great heights. A father feels happy when his son starts earning. A chef feels happy, when a random customer walks into his kitchen just to hug him and say "You have magic in your hands".  A student feels happy when a teacher introduces him to others as, "He is my student :)". A teacher feels happy when his/her student introduces him to the world as "He is my teacher :) :)". A girl feels happy, when her boy kisses her on the forehead. A guy feels happy when his girl spares him from the late night talks and allows him to watch "FIFA". They feel happy in all these small yet valuable things, it's all because these are the choices they have made. 


So friends, it's all about the choices we make, make a choice, Choose to be Smart, Choose to be Sexy, Choose to be Successful, Choose to be Wealthy, Choose to be Beautiful, Choose to be Happy ... :) 



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